DECEIT in Relationships |SINCERE NON-JUDGMENTAL ADVISE PLEASE

Recently I have been receiving mails upon mails of DECEIT in relationships. Where the ladies never knew the guys were MARRIED MEN! And bad heart breaks are on the rise…. Very sad. One contemplated taking her life, another totally messed up, yet another was almost on her way to the altar next month. Really sad…

My heart is broken because they are women and sisters like us all. Please don’t judge them. I don’t know what to say to them but I have given the best counsel that I can give which is total surrender to God, but I think I need to really put this out for a debate and they might just be blessed or relieved by one or two of your comments. I have taken permission to share their stories which I will do this week!

Because of this I spent the night searching for answers and I saw this article. I just want you to read it before I share one of the ladies story and how these married men have perfected their act and you wouldn’t in your life believe it’s a real life story. Meanwhile this lady is one of my best client and you wouldn’t believe the wife of this so-called man is also my client too all here in LAGOS ISLAND! And the wife is such a lovely lady. It’s really sad! Since Sunday, we all have been tagging ourselves on post on the international women day, so now let’s start practicing all we have been posting by being each other’s keepers.

Here are signs for all my SINGLE FOLLOWERS AND FANS ON HOW TO SPOT THAT “HE IS A MARRIED MAN”.THEN WE ALSO HAVE TO LET OUR MARRIED SISTERS KNOW “HOW TO KNOW YOUR HUSBAND IS HAVING AN AFFAIR” AND “HOW TO HELP HIM NOT HOW TO FIGHT HIM”.

Finding a boyfriend or new relationship isn’t simple. There are many unscrupulous men out there who put themselves into the dating world even if they are married. It is important for single women to know how to spot a married man before she chooses to become serious with someone who is unavailable.

ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS
The best way to obtain information about anyone is to simply ask the man point-blank: “Are you married?” If he tells you that he is married, this is obviously a sign to walk away. He may tell you that he is single, but watch for tell-tale signs of lying such as averting his gaze, looking up when speaking, sweating and becoming overly defensive or nervous. Ask other questions about his life. These topics could include anything from his residence to questions about children. Watch for discrepancies in his answers. If he is lying about these aspects of his life, he could also be lying about his marital status.

LOOK FOR A WEDDING RING
The simplest way to tell if a man is married is to look for a wedding ring. Keep an eye out for a man who purposely hides his left hand because he may be hiding his ring. Also look for a tan line on his ring finger. This means he is spoken for and has simply removed his ring to make it appear that he is single. Watch for the outline of a ring in his jacket, shirt, or pants pocket.

PHONE NUMBERS
Be suspicious of a man who is not willing to give you his home phone number and will only allow you to contact him at work or on his cell phone. He might also ask you to call him during unusual hours of the day and will not speak to you on the weekends. This is probably a man who is spending this time with his family and does not want to risk his mistress calling while he is with his wife and children.

MEETINGS
A married man will tend to want to meet you at restaurants, hotels and at your home. Be wary of a man who is not willing to bring you to his home. When he does take you to dinner or a hotel, a married man will also tend to pay for everything with cash instead of a credit card, which would leave a paper trail that his wife may uncover.

PLEASE YOUR SINCERE NON-JUDGMENTAL ADVISE -PLEASE.

9 thoughts on “DECEIT in Relationships |SINCERE NON-JUDGMENTAL ADVISE PLEASE”

  1. Ma, I just want to add that 90% of married men don’t wear their wedding ring. All the single ladies just need to be more prayerful. And also ladies need to connect to their intuition the other signs are usually clear such as ignoring calls most esp weekends and even at night and if he picks up eventually its in a low voice or I will call you back so please let’s all watch and pray. Men are full of deceit.

  2. It’s so sad this has become the norm these days. I know of a similar situation where the lady claimed she didn’t know the man was married but along the line she was confronted by the man’s sister who told her to backoff she never did but continued till date now with child and moved in with the man. Some of our ladies should be more careful if you are in a relationship with a guy try not to get carried away be prayerful, shine your eyes ask questions even his age should be a clear indication as to his marital status. His wife is left abandoned abroad with her children. It’s especially common amongst men who relocate home without their families. If you find yourself in this situation you have to be sincere with yourself to retrace your steps.

    1. You’re right about retracing ones step. It would be hard but God restores the years the cankerworm has stolen- only if one believes and is open to His restoration.Thank you for sharing Funke, God bless you!

  3. I dont agree with the first 2 suggestions. A man will never tell you his married you will have to find out yourself secondly most men dont wear rings and will not come to you hinding it in their pockets bearing in mind their are coming to your place. But the latter one is part of the signs to give you a red light. but above all dont rush to relationships bcos you getting old or ur mates have are getting marry. if you on the God side the right man will come at the right time. for those that i ve already cought in the web go back to God, He will right every wrong that is sure.

  4. Its the sign of the end time. Men are becoming even more deceitful and women are becoming gullible and greedy. People should be closer to God. With the fear of God these vices will be curbed. Ladies wait for your man and your time. It will surely come. Men stop taking advantage of the vulnerability of the ladies. QED. Bless you!

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